Life Strategy?

So the last few posts were about being engaged in each day and this post is about examining your life as a whole.

The speech by Harvard Business School professor Clayton Christensen reposted here, titled "How Will you Measure your Life?" encourages you to apply some business principles to your personal life. I know it sounds dehumanizing to consider yourself a company but he isn't talking about how much revenue growth you have year to year in terms of salary, he is talking about how you allocate your resources and your strategy/mission for your life.

I first came across this article when I peeked over at the woman I was sitting next to on the subway to see what she was reading. Harvard Business Review...interesting. Anyway, I did chat with her and I later looked up the article online.

The first time I read "How Will you Measure your Life?" I had two immediate reactions

1. I think this guy "gets" it.

2. How do I find an hour a day to reflect and pray about the purpose for my own life?

What do I mean by he "gets" it? I mean that I think it is uncommon for most people to dedicate time to thinking about the purpose of their lives. It is one of those big questions that either gets neglected in the frenzy of a busy life or one that gets ignored because there are a million easier things to do than think about the purpose of your life. I think that having a life purpose/vision/mission statement helps anchor you when life gets crazy. I think its pretty remarkable he allocated an hour a day during his Rhodes scholar life. I also generally agree with his conclusion

"Donʼt worry about the level of individual prominence you have achieved; worry about

the individuals you have helped become better people. This is my final recommendation: Think about the metric by which your

life will be judged, and make a resolution to live every day so that in the end, your life will be judged a success."

I guess since I'm advocating living consciously every day, I also need to add that it goes hand in hand with living consciously towards a purpose. I haven't followed through on my desire to spend an hour or even half an hour each day dedicated to quiet time and reflection but since I have a blog audience I am issuing a public challenge to myself to allocate a half hour each day towards thinking about how I'm going to measure my life and I'm sure it will turn into more blog posts :)

Let me know if any of you want to try this with me!

Quarterlife crisis readings

Having a quarterlife crisis is definitely something that would be hashtagged on twitter as #firstworldproblems but it is a relatively common topic amongst my peers.

Part of the difficulty of graduating from college is realizing that

1. There is no longer a clear road map to "success". You got into college and graduated. Maybe you have a job now too. Now what?

2. There are no longer grades, tests, papers, and other external sources of measurement and praise for your self worth. Hopefully, your self worth was never dependent on these external measurements to begin with.

3. You and your friends are no longer on "equal" footing. Different working hours, salaries, and professions can create subtle changes in relationships where in the past we were all students.

4. Life was never fair but once you leave academia there is no pretense of trying to make life appear fair.

5. You realize that the process of getting a job at your firm was more challenging than your day to day work.

I think each of the 5 issues above can contribute to some reassessment of our life, time, and relationships.

There have been two influential articles/essays for me during my period of reassessment.

I want to explore David Foster Wallace's commencement speech (http://online.wsj.com/article/SB122178211966454607.html) further on Wednesday

and the essay about How to Measure a Life from Harvard Business School (http://alexcusack.files.wordpress.com/2010/08/how-will-you-measure-your-life.pdf) on Thursday.

The commencement speech focuses on how to live and think in the present while the HBS essay applies some principles used in assessing companies on your own life.